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There are Literacy classes, a library and handicraft
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The Social Care House in Aden has been helping rehabilitate
young girls after prison since 2005. Officially known as the
Relief Center for Female Ex-Prisoners and Victims of Violence,
the shelter is considered to be the first refuge of its kind in
the Middle East.
"Do you have any younger sisters?” she asked in a low voice.
"Promise me you will look after them. Don't lose them as my
older sisters did me."
This is how 16 year-old Salwa*, one of the nine girls currently
living at the Social Care House, began her story.
"My father pushed me out onto the streets to beg, though we have
many properties as well as a house. My father doesn't want to
work, all he wants is easy money given to him from me and my
other siblings,” she said.
Salwa was living in Sana’a while she was begging, but she was
seized by security in Aden and charged with prostitution.
“I met some bad girls and ran away with them to Aden. Escaping
from the house and life I was living, I didn't realize that I
was running towards a worse fate. The girls led me down a
terrible path that I don't want to talk about. I was told that I
had to pay for staying in their apartment, and that I would have
to work for it,” she recalled.
The police caught Salwa among others. After having served her
sentence at Aden jail, she tried to return home but was rejected
by her father.
“He simply said that if I came back, he would kill me. According
to him, I didn’t have a birth certificate so I didn't exist, and
no one could accuse him of anything.
“Since then I have lived here at the shelter, and received a lot
of psychological, as well as social care,” she concluded.
According to Afra'a Hariri, head of the Social Care House, the
wide range of medical, psychological and educational needs of
female prisoners and their children are not met in prison, and
most of these women leave prison without any skills or the
capacity to survive in mainstream society. The Social Care House
provides a home for the girls after being ostracized from
society.
"Girls and young women who run away from domestic violence,
abuse or child marriages can neither find an institution for
help and advice, nor a job to earn their living legally," Hariri
said.
The relief centre offers legal, psychological and medical
support to the girls in the shelter. It provides legal aid and
assistance in court dealings, literacy classes and handicraft
courses. It also works to help in the re-socialization of
released female prisoners by finding them a decent job to ensure
them a better future, as well as helps raise awareness for
victims of violence in the community.
"Most of the cases are stealing as well as prostitution and it
is hard for anyone to stand up for these girls in such cases to
try to help them. It is something to be ashamed of in our
society," Arhab Khamis, lawyer of the shelter, said.
Khamis described the reasons why most girls are living in the
house: "Many girls are simply ostracized from the community. It
becomes hard for them to interact with other members of society
after they have been in jail or faced violence in their family.
They lose their confidence and some of them may actually begin
to hurt others. The shelter looks after those girls and tries to
rehabilitate them so that they can easily re-enter society and
be able to earn a living.”
The Social Care House, which was established in 2005, has
witnessed its share of tragedy, but there are also some happy
stories. “One of the girls is married now and it was amazing
looking at her father accepting her all over again when he came
to approve the marriage,” said Khamis. 43 women and girls have
been supported by the Social Care House from the time of its
establishment. At the moment there are nine girls and one child
living in the house. Three of those nine girls are going to
school.
"I started working in the shelter as a volunteer and simply
decided to help these girls. There surely should be closer
cooperation between the government and the civil community on
this issue but, despite several attempts to establish a bridge
between the two sides, there still isn’t one. Such a goal won’t
be achieved unless we cooperate more," Khamis finally added.
Amal*, now in her last month of pregnancy after her marriage,
explained: "I reall
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Ex-female inmates undergo rejection of their families
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y felt like a human being and a lady. Getting married as a
true woman with all my marriage expenses was really amazing and
made me simply feel alive again. I'm glad I am treated as a
normal woman and not as a stranger anymore after my father’s
denial of me for almost seven years."
"In order to be reintegrated into their families and society,
they have to have access to medical care and psychological
support, upgrade their professional skills and get help in
finding suitable jobs and this is what the shelter is trying to
fully provide," Hariri said.
"Three girls are now in school studying. After taking part in
the literacy classes at the shelter, they were able to join
governorate schools. I feel glad these girls have become more
aware of their rights. For example, one of the girls is starting
to debate legal issues with me. She keeps arguing about human
rights and what she is entitled to do or not. Some of the girls
are actually trying to impose their rights on me in the house,"
she finally added.
The Relief Center for Female Ex-Prisoners and Victims of
Violence or Social Care House is a part of the Arab Foundation
for Supporting Women and Juveniles (AFSWJ). The center enjoys
support from the Ministry of Human Rights, and will continue to
receive core funding from the German Federal Ministry for
Economic Cooperation and Development (BMZ) through the German
Technical Cooperation (GTZ) until June 2009.
The first of its kind in the Middle East, the Social Care House
approaches female prisoners at Al-Mansura Prison in Aden and
other female prisoners from other governorates upon request. It
aims to help released female prisoners, victims of violence and
especially victims of child marriage, as well as and female
refugees.
"The BMZ received a proposal for the project from the AFSWJ and
the proposal was approved. The Social Care House is supported by
the GTZ on behalf of the BMZ,” said Heba Ahmed, an intern for
the GTZ Equal Chances for Women program.
She went on to say that Germany and Yemen are striving to
implement gender equality and especially give equal chances to
women, one of the Millennium Development Goals (MDG), and are
supporting the Social Care House as part of this effort.
Ahmed described the project as a pilot project in Yemen and in
the Arab world. Despite fear of the project being rejected by
Yemeni society, the Social Care House has received great
support, with many people volunteering to help.
"The funding will come to an end next year in June. We hope that
the project finds other supporting donors and gets more support
from Yemeni institutions and persons," she finally added.
Noura Al-Qa'tabi, head of the Court of Appeal in Aden, said,
"Such a shelter house in Yemen is really something beneficial,
helpful and educational for girls and young women who run away
from domestic violence and child marriages as well as female
ex-prisoners. Their rehabilitation is obviously helping society
and the government is planning to build a bridge with the
shelter as soon as possible."
"There is no specific cooperation between us and the shelter now
because most females facing problems are not from the Aden
governorate. Most of them actually come from the northern
governorates.
Those who are released from prison in Aden don't face such
serious problems as others because their families accept them
without any trouble,” Al-Q'atabi said.
Names have been changed to protect the identity of the girls
interviewed. |